नमस्ते भारत (Goodbye India)

“I wanted movement and not a calm course of existence. I wanted excitement and danger and the chance to sacrifice myself for love. I felt in myself a superabundance of energy which found not outlet in our quiet life.” (Leo Tolstoy)

Passover in Vata Kanal didn’t go exactly as I had planned. After another night on a sleeper bus my cold got worse and I felt pretty bad. I spent the next 3 days in bed. I couldn’t even go to the saders (but I was told they weren’t very good), which made me really sad. Fortunately Vata is very cool and it is better to feel like crap there than be sweating as well. It was also really amazing to see O, Sh, M, Ab, GG, and Z! We spent time hanging out and catching up and another unexpected turn has been thrown into my travel plans. Everyone is staying in India, meaning I am traveling solo. Not exactly what I had planned. I decided to go to Thailand as I had planned and plan on meeting people when I got there. I got my ticket for the 9^th of April and planned o spending my next week and a half with Sh, O, and Ab. On Thursday there were more goodbyes to say to Sm, M, and Al (GG and Z I will see this summer) which was really hard because I don’t know the next time I will see any of them (they won’t be in Israel this summer when I am there). I am happy I have made such wonderful friends though, even if it is hard to say goodbye.

The 4 of us then took a bus back to Bangalore (it was absolutely terrible! Apparently it’s ok to put on obnoxious Bollywood films around 10:00 on a SLEEPER bus!) and then Ab went directly to Hampi while O, Sh, and I spent the day in Bangalore with Sm’s friends from before. We had a nice day, sat by the pool, ate good food, and just laughed a lot. We got on our last sleeper bus (which was more comfortable but had a lot of nonsense and confusion getting to) and were in Hampi by 5:30 in the morning. I had bee to Hampi last week but the girls wanted to go and I wanted to be with them so I figured it would be fine. It turned out to be wonderful!

We arrived really early Friday morning and got a rickshaw to the lake where we had to wait about an hour for the boat to take us across. At first we were a little annoyed and sleepy, until we got to watch the beautiful sunrise! Since I never get up early when I can help it I don’t see many sunrises so I was very grateful to see this one. We sat on the edge of the lake and took lots of pictures and by the time the sun was up, the boat had come.  We checked into the same hotel I stayed at last time (White Elephant) and then took naps! Our big event of the day was going to the lake for a couple hours and then dinner. It was a long day and we were all exhausted by the end.

The next morning I woke up early with Sh and went to yoga from 8-9:30! It was awesome! Since it was early it wasn’t blistering hot outside and the class was small. It was a great way to start the day and I felt refreshed and happy afterwards. We spent the day reading and relaxing and playing cards. We went to watch the sunset on top of a big rock, which was nice before we had dinner. I was on my computer after and was getting ready to go back to my room when a man came up to me. He told me I was beautiful and interesting and wanted to know if he could look at my hands.  We were in public and he didn’t seem like a serial killer (just a bit strange) so I let him. He told me I would live to be 130 and was the most powerful person in the guesthouse. I can live with that!

On Monday we got up early again and went across the lake to watch an elephant take a bath! This made me really excited for Thailand because I plan on spending a day with elephants. After the bath we walked to the temples and spent the morning exploring. They were absolutely beautiful but I wish more was known about them (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hampi#Temples). We took lots of pictures and sat in the shade and finally when it got hot we went and got lunch. After we went to the lake and spent time relaxing in the cool water. At dinner we met some people who said they were going to a waterfall the next day and offered to show us where it was. They seemed nice enough and we decided to join them!

The waterfall wasn’t really a waterfall but many pools. It took us about 40 minutes to walk there. We were really hot and tired but it was worth it. The area was beautiful and we had privacy, which was rare. We had brought lots of fruit and snacks and spent most of the afternoon there swimming and reading and laying in the sun. We never would have found it on our own and I am so happy we got to go! When we finally left we ate at a Nepalese place we had found the day before. I never thought I would miss Nepal so much already but just being able to speak a little Nepali to the guys who worked there made us all smile. That night we all sat together and as I looked around I realized this was what I had always wanted. There were people from Canada, New Zealand, Sweden, and Austria. I want to be around all sorts of different people and learn from them. I was only sad I was so tired from the sun and had to go pass out!

Wednesday morning and afternoon turned out to be a big to do (as many things usually turn out to be in this part of the world). O and I took a bus to the local city Hospet to try to mail some more things so our bags would be lighter. I was going to mail my stuff with her and pick it up in Israel in June. We went to the post office and they told us they couldn’t (or wouldn’t) weigh our things until after it was packed. They told us that it cost 750 rupees per kilo to mail to Israel and we had to go get a box and have it packed. We got someone at a nearby store to weigh our bags (about 5 kilos each) and then went to go get a box. Little did we know that this was only the first step. We packed all of our things into the box and then had to get it covered in cloth, which meant we had to go to a tailor. Then we had to have it sealed. I mean like Harry Potter sealed with candle wax and a stamp. Finally we wrote the address and everything on the box and went to the post office. According to my math (which I know is terrible but my multiplication with a calculator is perfectly acceptable) it should have cost about 7,500 rupees (750 rupees per kilo and we had 10 kilos), however it turned out to be only a little over 2,000. We were happy but confused, especially because we were in the post office for 10 minutes when the whole preparation had taken almost 2 hours. We got on the next bus out of Hospet and out of the extreme heat. We met some nice guys on the boat on the way back and I ended up going to the lake with them so I wouldn’t immediately take a nap. But after dinner I was pretty powerless to stay awake for long.

Thursday was lazy. We were all really hot and sleepy so we did laundry (which dried immediately) and read and ate. The big task came at the end of the afternoon. We got a rickshaw then climbed to the top of the monkey temple to watch the sun set. The climb up wasn’t nearly as bad as we had been prepared for and we actually made it up in about a half an hour. We explored and then walked all the way out onto the rocks and were very lucky to have such an amazing sun set. This was our last day in Hampi and with each other and it was the perfect way to end the day. We climbed down right after to avoid doing it in the dark and then enjoyed our last dinner.

On Friday morning we checked out of the White Elephant and went to Mowgli’s (another guesthouse close by) because Ab was staying in Hampi for Shabbat. We put our stuff in her room and had a last afternoon at the lake. Unfortunately we couldn’t stay too long because we had to all take showers and make sure all of our stuff dried in time. Then around 6:30 the three of us said goodbye to Ab and got on the bus for Goa.

I had to go back to Goa because there was a package for me waiting. There were some things I needed from home and my Dad sent them to a Marriott in Goa, which was, where were we were going to spend the next day! We were shown into the nicest room any of us had seen in months and then went to the complimentary continental breakfast. It was…. in a word: heaven! There was so much delicious food and everything looked so pretty that we were really upset when we all got full really fast! Afterwards O and I took a nice long nap and then I got up and went to the market place with Sh. I also booked my bus ticket for the next day to Mumbai. We came back to the hotel and went to the pool, which was heavenly! After we took awesome showers and made an effort to look nice for dinner, which was fantastic! The night ended with us all piled into one bed watching episodes of Glee!

Sunday was a long day.  After another breakfast we checked out of the Marriott. Our first stop was the market (I had to pick up a new battery for my phone) and then we had to take 2 buses to get to Arambol (I had suggested to Sh and O they would like it and I wanted to pick up a few things). We were told it would take a little under an hour to get there from Panaji (where we were) but it took much longer. By the time we got there and they had found a room I only had an hour and a half. I got a couple things but then it was time for me to go because my bus was leaving out of Panaji. Saying goodbye to Sh and O was weird. On the one hand, I will see them both again (I will see O in 2 months in Israel) but they have been my closest friends here and we have been through a lot together these past 6 months and saying goodbye was really sad. I took a cab back to Panaji and got on my final sleeper bus to Mumbai around 6:30. It was a long ride but I didn’t have to share a bed this time and it was nice and cool with the window open. I slept pretty decently.

Today, Monday, I arrived in Mumbai and got dropped off near the airport and got a room (very expensive). I haven’t done much today which is a little bit of a waste but I was tired from the bus and have a big day of travel tomorrow so I wanted a little time to just hibernate. I’ll be trying to meet people pretty quickly and will be pretty social for the next little while so I needed some me time. It’s weird, this is the first time I haven’t shared a room in 6 months. It doesn’t feel lonely though; it feels nice, for now. I know that traveling solo is a really good experience to have, but I didn’t want to see the world on my own. I am pretty nervous about leaving my friends but my desire to see more is stronger than all of my fears. I just hope that I am not alone for too long. I think it’s a bigger deal for me because I’m American. Not only do less Americans travel than a lot of other cultures but they don’t do it alone. Why do I always insist on being the one who is different? Because that is the only way I know how to live.

Signed,

Stubbornly Unique